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On the surface, things seem to be going well for you, and your daily life is likely running smoothly. You’re generally content with what your relationship provides. You see the value in your relationship and invest in it. However, there’s a risk that things are going well enough that you may forget to actively nurture your relationship, and you might even take each other for granted.

There might be a particular area that slightly bothers one or both of you, and you may not be entirely on the same page. Perhaps there’s a lack of passion, and your relationship lacks the positive spontaneity that can ignite those flames between you.

It could also be that one partner has something bothering them, but they don’t want to bring it up due to its perceived insignificance. Over time, these small issues can snowball into bigger problems if left unaddressed, and it can make the situation unfair when one person internalizes the issue, even though it’s actually a relationship problem.

This can lead to missed opportunities for improvement. Vocalizing your needs and desires is crucial – it ensures that both of you stay on the same page in your relationship. Occasionally, raising the issue is necessary amidst the routine. In the midst of everyday life, it’s also essential to establish how new habits are incorporated and made sustainable.

Remember positivity and quality time in your relationship. Compliment each other every day and nurture your relationship beyond the surface. Keep in mind that we’re constantly evolving as individuals, and the world around us is changing. Therefore, consciously updating your relationship from old patterns and habits is necessary. As a reward, you’ll feel like new people, filled with the energy of love. The world becomes much more exciting when you have those butterflies in your stomach, wondering what wonderful adventure you’ll embark on together next.

Must-have! My Love Language Couples’ Challenge is a weekly relationship refresh package. It’s a fun way to enhance your relationship dynamics. Every week, the Love Language offers a cheerful relationship challenge to surprise and delight your relationship for the next year. This is what keeps the flame alive!

Discover a deeper connection and purpose between you two: This is a relationship course that everyone should take at least once in their lifetime. The Boldly in Love Relationship Course has already helped thousands of couples achieve a more loving relationship and rediscover each other. New openings for Boldly in Love’s online course become available a few times a year.

A relationship is a commitment between two people. Remember, every relationship has its ups and downs, and the first step to awakening your relationship is acknowledging where you are now. Invite your partner to take the Relationship Checklist too. It’s a beautiful way to start your journey to strengthen your bond, create a more fulfilling relationship, and reignite the passion between you.

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Wishing you love in your day!

Jonna Maria

Couples Counselor, Sex Therapist

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